LIVE WORKSHOP FOR WOMEN 45+ WHO LOVE THEIR PARTNER BUT HAVEN'T FELT LIKE BEING INTIMATE IN A WHILE
Without trying to be 25 again, without forcing it, and without waiting for life to calm down first.
In 90 minutes, you'll walk away with your Desire Map: what's quietly shutting you down, what turns you on now, and what to try this week to start looking forward to intimacy again.
You've done the date nights, the scheduling, even the hormones.
In this live workshop, Dr. Sonia Wright shows you where your libido actually went, and why nothing you tried in the past has fixed it. Let Dr. Sonia help you create your own Desire Map so you know exactly what to try next.
These are some of the women who come to me for help.
And let's be real. You're tired of feeling like something is wrong with you.
She believed there was something wrong and shameful about intimacy itself. Today she and her partner are closer than ever.
"I thought something was deeply wrong with me… today I actually enjoy intimacy with my husband, and we're closer than ever."
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Sex and intimacy used to scare her. Now she fully owns it, enjoys it, and talks about it openly with her friends.
"Sex and intimacy scared the hell out of me. I felt guilty and ashamed... now I fully own it. It's a gift, truly."
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She and her partner had no intimacy, and she didn't feel good in her own body. Now the intimacy is better, and they can talk about it openly.
"We started with no intimacy and poor body image… now it's better quality, with open, honest communication."
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"Dr. Sonia helped me work through sexual health issues, as well as emotional and mental challenges with sex. My husband and I are truly grateful for her support. We now have a renewed interest in our sex life, as well as a deeper, more intimate and open communication with each other."
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You're the one who figures things out.
At work, at home, for everyone around you.
So when your desire disappeared, you did what you always do. You tried to fix it.
Your doctor said HRT would help. It helped some things.
But not being dry anymore isn't the same as wanting to be intimate with your partner.
So it turned into what I call duty sex. To‑do list sex.
Five minutes so they're happy and you can finally get some sleep.
And you still don't want it.
Which leaves you with the thought you don't say out loud:
"I've tried everything. It must be me."
It's not you.
You were handed the wrong model for how desire works in midlife, and trying harder won't fix the wrong model.
For years, you were taught that desire just shows up.
And if you love your partner, it should be easy.
Then midlife arrived.
So you tell yourself, "I should want it more." That turns into shame. Shame turns into pressure. Pressure turns into avoidance. Avoidance turns into disconnection. And then comes the worst part:
"See? Something really IS wrong with me."
Your desire didn't ghost you.It just moved.
For nearly 70% of women in midlife, desire doesn't show up first anymore. It shows up AFTER something else happens: connection, touch, rest, laughter, feeling safe. It's called responsive desire, and it's completely normal.
Hormones water the garden. They don't remove the pesticides.
Stress. Pain. Resentment. Exhaustion. Your thoughts about your changing libido. The "good girl, bad girl" messages you grew up with.
Every woman's pesticide mix is different.
In this workshop, you'll find out what's blocking your desire.
I'm a medical doctor, a sexual counselor and a master certified life coach, and I've spent years helping midlife women get their groove back. Nothing you say will shock me, and nothing you ask will be too much.
And I'm not asking you to do anything I haven't done myself.
They don't teach doctors about women's desire in medical school. I learned it the hard way. I went through perimenopause and menopause. I thought my libido was dead. I spent almost 10 years in a relationship without intimacy. I've felt the 10pm dread, and I've loved someone and felt nothing when they touched me.
In my 50s I went on an exploration journey to find my desire and reignite intimacy in my life again.
The Desire Reset Method comes from my own journey and from years of coaching women through this exact season. What comes back isn't the old version of you. It's something better, because this time, YOU choose it.
"Working with Sonia has been such a great experience. I feel so much more confident about the relationship I am creating with my husband and have already seen changes in our communication and intimacy that I know will continue to grow as I apply this work. I highly recommend her!"
A live workshop on Zoom with Dr. Sonia, Monday, November 23 at 8pm Eastern / 7pm Central / 5pm Pacific. Camera and microphone off. Nobody sees you, nobody hears you.
Inside the workshop, you'll get:
The replay is included, so you can catch it later if you can't make it live, or go back to the parts you want to hear again.
Stay to the end with me and you'll get The Busy Woman's Guide to Intimacy, free: the new rules of midlife desire on one page, plus the exact questions I use with private clients to help you uncover what creates desire for YOU.
It's yours to fill in that same night, and it goes to live attendees only.
LIVE on Monday, November 23 at 8pm Eastern / 7pm Central / 5pm Pacific
By the end of the workshop, you'll:
Fair question. Here's the honest answer:
Come to the workshop.
If you don't feel it was worth far more than what you paid, email me at [email protected] within 30 days and I'll refund you.
No questions asked.
Total value: $844
Workshop price: $20 $10 with code EARLYBIRD through November 16
If you scrolled straight to the bottom, here's the deal:
The Midlife Desire Workshop is a live workshop on Zoom on Monday, November 23 at 8pm Eastern / 7pm Central.
It's $20, or $10 with code EARLYBIRD through November 16, and it's covered by my 30-day money-back guarantee.